Dating 40 year old man

Dating > Dating 40 year old man

Hi all, I have a girlfriend who was telling me that she met a nice young man but she does not want to have a relationship because she thinks he is too young for her. I told her that if he is nice and mature I dont' see a problem. The way I see it there are 40 year old men who are committment phobes and very immature so if she finds a 25 year old who she likes what is wrong with that. She keeps saying he is the same age as her younger brother. I really think she is worried about what other people will think. What datng you think, is a 15 year age difference a big deal? The age difference is just a number. The telling factor is whether there is a big maturity difference or not, and whether these two in a relationship are going to be compatable from the standpoint of life goals and objectives. If that is the case, there shouldn't be a hangup with a relationship. I have known couples with a 15 year spread in ages that were very happy and content. How many involved an older woman with a guy 15 years younger, though? I'll tell you right now that this dude will eventually stray as she gets older. She may look decent at 40, but when she turns 50 and he's only 35 and has the option to date women as young as 25-27he'll likely start looking for someone younger. I think she datiny make lld decision based on how she thinks and feels and not how she will be perceived. However, a 15 year age gap is a big difference, growing up at mah times, stages of life, etc. She is likely established in home uear career, yera he's just starting out. She's at the end of her reproductive cycle and he's at the age where people are starting to yeaf long-term relationships, marriage, kids. Love and attraction aren't enough, there has to be more there to sustain a long-term relationship, compatibility on all levels. I, at 40, would never even consider a 25 year old, but that's just dating 40 year old man />It does work for some people.

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